A friend asked me “What is cheating?”
Here is my response:
“That is individual to each person. Cheating itself is not real. Its a belief of betrayal based on the perception the individual has of the emotion they feel caused by the event.
So the only person who can say what cheating is, is the person to which the act of cheating has been commited.
This person could say that observing another person is cheating while another may say that the emotion of love is cheating while any physical act isnt.
This is based on what the individual has been taught about the metaphyscal experience of love in regards to the physical experience of love.
In summary, only the person being cheated on can tell you.”